Have you ever wondered if what turns you on — an erotic video call, some used panties, or seeing a tight thong on a cute ass — might be a fetish? Spoiler: if you’re asking yourself that, it probably is… and there’s absolutely nothing wrong with it!
Fetishes are more common than you think. Far from being “weird” or “perverted,” they can actually be a very legit (and seriously pleasurable) way to explore your sexuality.
How do you know if you have a fetish?
You don’t have to be obsessed with an item or situation 24/7. A fetish usually shows up when something specific becomes a consistent or intense source of arousal. Some signs:
- A photo of a girl in a thong turns you on more than any standard porn scene.
- You fantasize about someone sniffing your used panties.
- Sexual video calls excite you more than physical sex.
- Selling your underwear or sexy pics turns you on… maybe even more than the money itself.
A fetish doesn’t need to dominate your sex life, but it often shows up as a recurring fantasy — something that crosses your mind when you masturbate or imagine letting yourself go.
What if what turns me on feels… weird?
There’s no such thing as “weird” when it comes to desire. Some people are into feet (yes, like those who sell foot pics in Spain), others get turned on by wet panties, erotic audios, or practices like bondage. These are just personal, unique ways to connect with pleasure — not signs of something being wrong.
And science backs this up: our brain sexualizes what it links to pleasure or tension. If a situation, item, or image becomes erotically meaningful, your brain naturally adds it to your turn-on list.
So is it okay to have a fetish?
Absolutely. In fact, it can be a powerful form of self-discovery. Knowing what excites you — and owning it — is part of living your sexuality freely. What matters most is exploring it in a safe, consensual, and (if you want) shared way.
On platforms like Secret Panties, people aren’t just exploring their own fetishes (like wearing women’s thongs or going commando), they’re also connecting with those who enjoy them on the other side.
Curious to know if yours is a fetish or just another fun fantasy?
Explore it without shame at Secret Panties, where your desires are free to shine.
