If you already know what a JOI (Jerk Off Instruction) is and want to start selling this type of content on Secret Panties, there’s one crucial thing you need to master: structure. It’s not just about turning someone on — you need to know how to guide them from the first second to the climax (or not!). That’s where the magic of a strong erotic narrative comes in.
Here’s how to build a JOI step by step, blending pleasure, tension, and guided fantasy.
1. Introduction: connect before you turn on
Don’t start giving orders right away. First, set the mood. Use your most intimate, whispering tone — like you’re speaking right into their ear.
“Hi… I’ve been waiting to be alone with you. Today you’ll obey every word I say. Ready?”
This first moment builds connection, makes them feel special… and sets the stage for surrender.
2. Building tension: control the pace
Start slow. Don’t give away all the instructions at once. You can bring in your own kinks or products you sell — like used panties, foot pics, or even a sexy video call. For example:
“Picture me in my panties… wet… and you, just watching, not allowed to touch them yet.”
This moment is key: you’re not just arousing — you’re controlling the pace of pleasure.
3. Peak intensity: total control
When you reach the middle or high point of the JOI, you can get more commanding. Now it’s time for edging (taking them to the edge and stopping), countdowns, or more explicit phrases.
This stage can also include elements of gooning, mental bondage, or simply verbal submission.
4. Climax… or denial
Now you decide if you allow orgasm — or not. Both can be equally arousing when guided properly. You can even create a series of chained audios where the climax only comes at the very end (perfect for selling exclusive content!). For example:
“You want it? Not tonight. You’re going to sleep like this, thinking of me.”
The key? End with a powerful line that leaves them craving more… or searching for the next audio.
💡 Bonus tip: personalize it
Many buyers want erotic audios that feel like they were made just for them. Using their name, their fetishes (like panty sniffing or used thongs) or other fantasies makes you stand out and builds loyalty.
Ready to give it a try? Create your first JOI experience and upload it to your Secret Panties profile!
